This is the toughest question facing the homo sapiens.........
Homo sapiens is divided into two species:MAN & WOMAN.The brain of man is different from the brain of woman.Nothing wrong in there and not to be surprised.This is Nature's plan of balance and preservation.Man is beautiful and his woman is also beautiful.Each performs tasks as ordained by Nature.
But now, what has happened?Humanity is churning like a buttermilk in a mixie!Man is doing a woman's job and the woman a man's job.Why? Because there is no leader to guide them.And both the sexes are feeling they are right; but are they right?No, not at all! They are disobeying Nature.Nature is our God, Mother,Boss,Leader,Father everything; we are failing to observe Nature.
There is no difference between the animal kingdom and the homo sapiens as far as aspects of survival,emotions of love,sleep and waking patterns or procreation are concerned.Take the animal kingdom.Watch the Lion.How he comes close to the Lioness and rubs his neck in first love making sign to woo her.It is the Lioness who haS to decide whether to accept this Lion or not as her mate.If she rejects his advances, the Lion goes away and looks for another Lioness.
Consider, the Lioness accepts him.They start meeting often,making love,indulge in sex,mate and the Lioness gets pregnant.What happens now?The Lion will make her Lioness as comfortable as possible and put her in the best cave for her to deliver.
Now, the human race has just to watch the amount of care, the Lion exhibits!He will hunt for food everyday,sit near her,watch her face,lick her body to make her confident.And the Lioness will just look in his face and understand everything.Now, the little ones will be born.The Lion will continue to support her by regularly providing her with food and moreover his prersence near her.Here, you can see unbelieveably, how the Lion and the Lioness are displaying perfect individuality as ordained by Nature.
Now, what does the Man do when his wife gets pregnant.He will do the most stupid thing; he sends her to her mother's house for delivery.You know why?To keep away from the deadly mother-in-law, who wants to create trouble inspite of wanting a grand child!And God forbit,if a girl is born.Then all hell will break loose!The wife will bear all the insults available in oxford dictionary.And the poor Man is caught between the devil and the deep sea.He is not a Lion at all;he is impotent;just watches all the drama of his parents.In such a situation how can a person GROW as an individual?
Now, observe the next scene of the animal kingdom.The Lion and his family are growing up with tremendous love,confidence and understanding.The Lioness teaches her cubs how to hunt for food,think of survival and generally how to display a positive nature in life.Meanwhile, the Lion watches on the sidelines;never interfering in his wife's handling of the domestic responsibility.Even if the Lioness and her cubs go to her mother's house, the Lion will allot a certain period for her to return.If she fails to return,the Lion charges into his in-laws locality and lets out a big roar to let know that he has come to take her and she willingly obeys out of love.
And, what happens on our human scene?The poor wife has already suffered much at her in-laws house for delivering a girl.The in-laws are not happy.They all have long faces and start hitting the poor daughter-in-law with emotional explisitives.The daughter-in-law instead of radiating goes into an emotional upheaval.Her face shows a trauma and her white shining skin turns a sickly black.As time passes, she suffers more and more, ultimately leading her to commit suicide or landing herself in a mental hospital.And the husband watches all this soap opera behiond the curtain,being completely impotent to taking any action.All because hs is under family obligation as far as finance and other terms are concerned.
Have you seen a Lion and a Lioness fighting with each other?Never!But, the scene is horrible on the hman kingdom.The wife has already returned with a bitter experience from her in-laws; now she should adjust to her husband's tantrums.The husband, under the thumbof his paretns is a confused man.Who he should support---his wife or his parents?The fight between the couple goes on endlessly and there is no peace in the house.Here, 3 results can happen........suicide,divorce or going to her parents house.No such things are happening in the animal kingdom.But, is humanity learning anything?
You can GROW as an individual only when you are allowed to do your 'own' thing.What is this 'own' thing?Each individual is programmed by Nature to do different tasks.For instance,a woman may want to beautify her house in a particular way, for which her husband should support her totally.The husband has to understand that Nature has given a brain to his wife different from him.She has her own ideas for which the husband should appreciate.If she is not given the chance, she cannot GROW as an individual; she will stagnate and die!?!
Same thing goes for husband.Let him do what he feels is right; no interference from his wife is allowed.This is how both will GROW in creativity as a couple.A husband may want to grow a garden in his backyard; but the wife may not like the idea.If the husband is not given his SPACE, he will not be happy.The wife may love him for her own reason for not supporting his idea of a garden, but her love will be only from her head and not from her heart.
GROWTH IS POSSIBLE IN PLANTS IF THEY ARE GIVEN FREEDOM AND SPACE BY REGULAR WATERING AND SUNSHINE.
THE SAME LAW IS FOR THE MAN AND THE WOMAN.
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