This is the toughest question facing the homo sapiens.........
Homo sapiens is divided into two species:MAN & WOMAN.The brain of man is different from the brain of woman.Nothing wrong in there and not to be surprised.This is Nature's plan of balance and preservation.Man is beautiful and his woman is also beautiful.Each performs tasks as ordained by Nature.
But now, what has happened?Humanity is churning like a buttermilk in a mixie!Man is doing a woman's job and the woman a man's job.Why? Because there is no leader to guide them.And both the sexes are feeling they are right; but are they right?No, not at all! They are disobeying Nature.Nature is our God, Mother,Boss,Leader,Father everything; we are failing to observe Nature.
There is no difference between the animal kingdom and the homo sapiens as far as aspects of survival,emotions of love,sleep and waking patterns or procreation are concerned.Take the animal kingdom.Watch the Lion.How he comes close to the Lioness and rubs his neck in first love making sign to woo her.It is the Lioness who haS to decide whether to accept this Lion or not as her mate.If she rejects his advances, the Lion goes away and looks for another Lioness.
Consider, the Lioness accepts him.They start meeting often,making love,indulge in sex,mate and the Lioness gets pregnant.What happens now?The Lion will make her Lioness as comfortable as possible and put her in the best cave for her to deliver.
Now, the human race has just to watch the amount of care, the Lion exhibits!He will hunt for food everyday,sit near her,watch her face,lick her body to make her confident.And the Lioness will just look in his face and understand everything.Now, the little ones will be born.The Lion will continue to support her by regularly providing her with food and moreover his prersence near her.Here, you can see unbelieveably, how the Lion and the Lioness are displaying perfect individuality as ordained by Nature.
Now, what does the Man do when his wife gets pregnant.He will do the most stupid thing; he sends her to her mother's house for delivery.You know why?To keep away from the deadly mother-in-law, who wants to create trouble inspite of wanting a grand child!And God forbit,if a girl is born.Then all hell will break loose!The wife will bear all the insults available in oxford dictionary.And the poor Man is caught between the devil and the deep sea.He is not a Lion at all;he is impotent;just watches all the drama of his parents.In such a situation how can a person GROW as an individual?
Now, observe the next scene of the animal kingdom.The Lion and his family are growing up with tremendous love,confidence and understanding.The Lioness teaches her cubs how to hunt for food,think of survival and generally how to display a positive nature in life.Meanwhile, the Lion watches on the sidelines;never interfering in his wife's handling of the domestic responsibility.Even if the Lioness and her cubs go to her mother's house, the Lion will allot a certain period for her to return.If she fails to return,the Lion charges into his in-laws locality and lets out a big roar to let know that he has come to take her and she willingly obeys out of love.
And, what happens on our human scene?The poor wife has already suffered much at her in-laws house for delivering a girl.The in-laws are not happy.They all have long faces and start hitting the poor daughter-in-law with emotional explisitives.The daughter-in-law instead of radiating goes into an emotional upheaval.Her face shows a trauma and her white shining skin turns a sickly black.As time passes, she suffers more and more, ultimately leading her to commit suicide or landing herself in a mental hospital.And the husband watches all this soap opera behiond the curtain,being completely impotent to taking any action.All because hs is under family obligation as far as finance and other terms are concerned.
Have you seen a Lion and a Lioness fighting with each other?Never!But, the scene is horrible on the hman kingdom.The wife has already returned with a bitter experience from her in-laws; now she should adjust to her husband's tantrums.The husband, under the thumbof his paretns is a confused man.Who he should support---his wife or his parents?The fight between the couple goes on endlessly and there is no peace in the house.Here, 3 results can happen........suicide,divorce or going to her parents house.No such things are happening in the animal kingdom.But, is humanity learning anything?
You can GROW as an individual only when you are allowed to do your 'own' thing.What is this 'own' thing?Each individual is programmed by Nature to do different tasks.For instance,a woman may want to beautify her house in a particular way, for which her husband should support her totally.The husband has to understand that Nature has given a brain to his wife different from him.She has her own ideas for which the husband should appreciate.If she is not given the chance, she cannot GROW as an individual; she will stagnate and die!?!
Same thing goes for husband.Let him do what he feels is right; no interference from his wife is allowed.This is how both will GROW in creativity as a couple.A husband may want to grow a garden in his backyard; but the wife may not like the idea.If the husband is not given his SPACE, he will not be happy.The wife may love him for her own reason for not supporting his idea of a garden, but her love will be only from her head and not from her heart.
GROWTH IS POSSIBLE IN PLANTS IF THEY ARE GIVEN FREEDOM AND SPACE BY REGULAR WATERING AND SUNSHINE.
THE SAME LAW IS FOR THE MAN AND THE WOMAN.
Monday, July 7, 2008
Tuesday, July 1, 2008
"WHAT IS GOODNESS?"
Goodness is the highest virtue in a human being.Mind you, I am using the word 'highest',because it has some significance.Goodness can never work in being part,small,or little; it has to be total,comprehensive,and whole.Jesus Christ was the symbol of goodness; he did not possess even one bad trait.He was totally good,he was totally comprehensive in righteousness and he was totally whole in right thinking.
When you are totally good, you are like a GOD!There is an aura of brightness about your personality, which is seen and felt by the person close to you.Whatever he touches turns into gold!Upon seeing such a completely good person, all your problems and troubles seem to melt away.
There are many persons in the world who are good but are not totally good.They may earn money honestly in many ways, but they are equally corrupt in some other way.They may be philanthropists in their circle; but someone may curse them also.A good person is a honest person, who never cheats anyone in thought,word or deed.So part goodness is not goodness at all.Its like a student giving examination of his study.The amount of marks he gets will decide his merit.Suppose he gets 50%,60%,70%,80% or 90% will decide his intelligence.
But, if he gets 100% marks,he will be considered a perfectly intelligent student.People may look up to him as GOD also.Hence, if you want to be completely good,see that you are 100% perfect in all areas; no dishonesty in any field should be seen.
When you are totally good, you are like a GOD!There is an aura of brightness about your personality, which is seen and felt by the person close to you.Whatever he touches turns into gold!Upon seeing such a completely good person, all your problems and troubles seem to melt away.
There are many persons in the world who are good but are not totally good.They may earn money honestly in many ways, but they are equally corrupt in some other way.They may be philanthropists in their circle; but someone may curse them also.A good person is a honest person, who never cheats anyone in thought,word or deed.So part goodness is not goodness at all.Its like a student giving examination of his study.The amount of marks he gets will decide his merit.Suppose he gets 50%,60%,70%,80% or 90% will decide his intelligence.
But, if he gets 100% marks,he will be considered a perfectly intelligent student.People may look up to him as GOD also.Hence, if you want to be completely good,see that you are 100% perfect in all areas; no dishonesty in any field should be seen.
"ORIGINALITY & BOOK PUBLISHING"
What is originality?Originality is an exclusive thought or idea of a person not yet thought or said by another person.
My originality comes into play, when my mind asks a question, in the midway of a thought......."Whether this is possible?"
I am of the opinion that 90% of the books on fiction,stories,essays published in the world should not be written at all.Why? Because, they write out of compulsion; they offer to the reader nothing but environmental disaster of wasting our precious trees!I know the daggers will be out, but what about the content potential?Going still deeper, even some of the current bestsellers are boring to read.You have to look at the classics...............Dr.Zivago,The Ten Commandments,Ulyses,Samson&Delila,Cleopatra,Where Eagles Dare,Charlie Chaplin,Mother India,Malgudi Days,20,000 leagues under the sea,Marx Brothers,Gone with the Wind......such novel are full of inspiration, awe,entertaining,morals........a book you want to hold to your heart forever.I know everyone who writs will consider me a villain, who has come to spoil their party' but I don't mean any such thing.I only want to encourage them to come out of their closet with something original in content for the readers to enjoy.Let their ideas run wild, mad, illogical, but form there the writer can built up the essay, prose or fiction.
Another point in a compulsive writer is to write long and thick.They will empty the ink in the pen upto the last drop, and then fill up a number of times, writing,writing,writing.But,sadly, the taste of the pudding will only be in the last few pages of the book.And, when the writer does finish writing the entie book,he will congratulate himself on acheiving a milestone!Whew!
My originality comes into play, when my mind asks a question, in the midway of a thought......."Whether this is possible?"
I am of the opinion that 90% of the books on fiction,stories,essays published in the world should not be written at all.Why? Because, they write out of compulsion; they offer to the reader nothing but environmental disaster of wasting our precious trees!I know the daggers will be out, but what about the content potential?Going still deeper, even some of the current bestsellers are boring to read.You have to look at the classics...............Dr.Zivago,The Ten Commandments,Ulyses,Samson&Delila,Cleopatra,Where Eagles Dare,Charlie Chaplin,Mother India,Malgudi Days,20,000 leagues under the sea,Marx Brothers,Gone with the Wind......such novel are full of inspiration, awe,entertaining,morals........a book you want to hold to your heart forever.I know everyone who writs will consider me a villain, who has come to spoil their party' but I don't mean any such thing.I only want to encourage them to come out of their closet with something original in content for the readers to enjoy.Let their ideas run wild, mad, illogical, but form there the writer can built up the essay, prose or fiction.
Another point in a compulsive writer is to write long and thick.They will empty the ink in the pen upto the last drop, and then fill up a number of times, writing,writing,writing.But,sadly, the taste of the pudding will only be in the last few pages of the book.And, when the writer does finish writing the entie book,he will congratulate himself on acheiving a milestone!Whew!
"WHAT IS RICHNESS?"
There are 2 types of richness in the world..........one of money and another of thoughts.Everyone knows about richness in Money; but what about richness in thoughts, words and deeds?
Richness in thoughts is about spirituality,about goodness,about order,about joy and happiness.How to do this without having Money in your bank?
Well, my friends, you can train your mind to help you.First you have to take into considewration about your attitude to Richness.This can be achieved in Thought, Word and Deed.
A THOUGHT is like a bomb or like Nature.It can destroy or it can create.Train your mind to be creative like Nature.Think of Goodness all the time........like inventions benefitting everyone alive on this planet.Once your mind works in this direction,then there is no stopping of your good thoughts continously, that will be creative in nature.Your mind will compel you to think that you are now Rich.
What is a WORD?A word is a group of alphabates in any language having some meaning;it may be any language of the people.There are good words as well as bad words in the world.Words like love, joy,handsome,beautiful are good words; whereas words like idiot,scoundrel,robber,selfish are bad words.People will judge you by the words that come out of your lips.Hence, train yourself to always use good words.If you can train your mind to use good words,you will feel immensely Rich within yourself.
And, finaly a DEED!A deed is an action resulting from your thought.So, a DEED is connected with your THOUGHT.But there is a magic formula for a DEED.What is that?
A decision that everyday you do one good DEED a day.You may wonder and laugh at me for making such a statement.Good DEEDS are many; but very few people implement them.The most powerful word in the world is the word ALLOW.You may get amused if I say this.........But ALLOW has a lot of power! If you ALLOW anything, that 'ANYTHING' ALLOWS you.This is the law of physics;Action & Reaction are equal in value, but opposite in direction.But there is a one catch here; it will only work for those people who ALLOW without any condition of compensation coming to them!You can do good DEEDS by ALLOWING the people their first rights to life.For instance, if an old blind person wants to cross the road, be the first to rush to his help; this will be your good DEED for the day.
If you are standing in a train or a bus, offer seat to a person in need; this will be your another good DEED.In this way, go on collecting good DEEDS for the day.I am sure that at the end of the day, you will feel immensely Rich.So, Money is not necessarily needed to feel Rich, there is another way to Richness too.
Richness in thoughts is about spirituality,about goodness,about order,about joy and happiness.How to do this without having Money in your bank?
Well, my friends, you can train your mind to help you.First you have to take into considewration about your attitude to Richness.This can be achieved in Thought, Word and Deed.
A THOUGHT is like a bomb or like Nature.It can destroy or it can create.Train your mind to be creative like Nature.Think of Goodness all the time........like inventions benefitting everyone alive on this planet.Once your mind works in this direction,then there is no stopping of your good thoughts continously, that will be creative in nature.Your mind will compel you to think that you are now Rich.
What is a WORD?A word is a group of alphabates in any language having some meaning;it may be any language of the people.There are good words as well as bad words in the world.Words like love, joy,handsome,beautiful are good words; whereas words like idiot,scoundrel,robber,selfish are bad words.People will judge you by the words that come out of your lips.Hence, train yourself to always use good words.If you can train your mind to use good words,you will feel immensely Rich within yourself.
And, finaly a DEED!A deed is an action resulting from your thought.So, a DEED is connected with your THOUGHT.But there is a magic formula for a DEED.What is that?
A decision that everyday you do one good DEED a day.You may wonder and laugh at me for making such a statement.Good DEEDS are many; but very few people implement them.The most powerful word in the world is the word ALLOW.You may get amused if I say this.........But ALLOW has a lot of power! If you ALLOW anything, that 'ANYTHING' ALLOWS you.This is the law of physics;Action & Reaction are equal in value, but opposite in direction.But there is a one catch here; it will only work for those people who ALLOW without any condition of compensation coming to them!You can do good DEEDS by ALLOWING the people their first rights to life.For instance, if an old blind person wants to cross the road, be the first to rush to his help; this will be your good DEED for the day.
If you are standing in a train or a bus, offer seat to a person in need; this will be your another good DEED.In this way, go on collecting good DEEDS for the day.I am sure that at the end of the day, you will feel immensely Rich.So, Money is not necessarily needed to feel Rich, there is another way to Richness too.
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